CWW Week 30 - Hatred - Day 5
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Scripture Focus
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbour and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
— Matthew 5:43–44 (NIV)
Devotion
Hate is a strong word—but sadly, it’s a familiar part of our world. From playground teasing to political division, to broken relationships and bitter grudges, it shows up in both small and serious ways. It’s tempting to justify it, especially when we’ve been wronged or hurt. But Jesus offers us a better way.
In Matthew 5:43–44, He challenges the mindset of the day:
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbour and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”
This teaching would’ve shocked His audience. In the ancient world—and let’s be honest, still in today’s world—loving your enemy seems upside-down. It feels unfair. If someone hurts you, why on earth should you love them?
But Jesus wasn’t calling His followers to live like everyone else. He was inviting them—and us—into a kingdom where love breaks down hate, and grace overcomes revenge.
“Love your enemies.”
This isn’t just about feelings; it’s about action. Jesus isn’t saying we need to like everyone or ignore harm. He’s calling us to respond with kindness, mercy, and compassion—even when it’s undeserved.
“Pray for those who persecute you.”
Prayer shifts our perspective. When we pray for those who’ve hurt us, it’s not about letting them off the hook—it’s about handing them over to God. It frees us from the weight of bitterness and opens the door for healing.
In Aussie culture, we often value standing up for ourselves and not letting people walk all over us. That’s not a bad thing. But there’s a difference between setting healthy boundaries and holding on to hate.
Hate hardens the heart. Love keeps it soft.
Think about Jesus on the cross. He wasn’t just teaching these words—He lived them. As He was being crucified, He prayed, “Father, forgive them.” That’s love in action. That’s the kind of love that changes lives.
Maybe today you’re carrying the weight of hate. Maybe someone betrayed you, lied about you, or walked away without a word. Or maybe you’ve been stuck in a cycle of frustration with someone you see every day—at work, at home, or even at church.
Jesus isn’t asking you to pretend it didn’t happen. He’s asking you to bring it to Him. To let go of vengeance and embrace the freedom of forgiveness. To pray for those who’ve hurt you—not because they deserve it, but because you’ve been shown mercy first.
Loving your enemy doesn’t mean staying in abusive situations. It doesn’t mean ignoring justice. But it does mean refusing to let hate write your story. When we choose love, we reflect the heart of God—who loved us even when we were far from Him.
This is not easy. It’s a supernatural kind of love. But Jesus never asks us to do it alone. He gives us His Spirit, His grace, and His strength to live out what He commands.
Reflection Questions
- Is there someone in my life I’ve struggled to forgive or love? What would it look like to pray for them honestly?
- Have I allowed bitterness or hate to quietly grow in my heart? What’s it costing me?
- How can I reflect the love and mercy of Jesus in a relationship that’s been difficult or broken?
Prayer
Dear Lord, Papa God,
You loved me when I was unlovable. You forgave me when I didn’t deserve it. Help me now to love those I find difficult. You know the pain I carry. You see the people who have hurt me. I lay all of that at Your feet.
Give me strength to forgive, courage to pray, and grace to choose love over hate. Heal the places in my heart that are hard. And teach me to live like You—in mercy, truth, and peace.
In Jesus name we pray, Amen.
Have a great day today with Jesus.
Graham Hood
Church Without Walls
